I am writing to share an actual event that I witnessed the weekend before Christmas. I was parked at Borders Books and Music at the Bangor Mall. I noticed a woman exit the store who experienced difficulty walking because of a disability.

I offered my assistance in the form of my arm and hand, which she accepted. Her vehicle was parked approximately one half the distance of the parking lot away from the store. We arrived at her vehicle and I assisted her with the door and entrance into her seat.

She was thankful for my help. I did not leave my name or ask what her name was, but I was impressed by the courage she exhibited in her effort to exercise her independence.

Returning to my vehicle, I noticed another vehicle in a handicap parking area. It occupied three places because it was parked perpendicular to the lines and I imagined someone who required the extra space because of a large chair or other device. Soon afterward a young woman exited the store and ran and jumped into this vehicle and left the parking area. I was amazed by her lack of concern.

What do we need to do in order to ensure the people with disabilities that they can utilize the special parking facilities without some inconsiderate individuals monopolizing the same? Should we ask city and town officials to institute a severe penalty in the form of a large monetary fine for this infraction?

If people will not initiate any compassion by themselves then we need to find a manner in which to force them to learn what is not acceptable in our society.

Dennis Kingman

Burlington